When it comes to Valentine’s Day, it can strike romanticism into the heart’s of women and fear into the heart’s of men. What gift should I get? What’s appropriate? What will she like? Am I being too corny? There are lots of different questions that people have to consider when they are selecting a Valentine’s gift. But have faith men, there is an appropriate gift for every woman, and you will be able to find it.

The first thing is to consider how much money you should be spending, or how much you can spend on romantic gifts for her. The rule of thumb, the longer the relationship the more the money. If you have been married for 50 years, then jewelry or a finer item is probably expected. But your girlfriend of three months might be frightened by a massive diamond. If you have only been dating them for a short amount of time, maybe consider just a nice date on Valentine’s, instead of a gift.

This is sincere and shows that you put thought into it, but doesn’t frighten her away with too much commitment right off the bat. If you are engaged, then look for a sentimental gift. Her favorite candies, favorite perfume, favorite movie soundtrack, even. Although not the most romantic gift, these things will make her realize that you remember those things, and that is a much better gift in her mind.

When it comes to thinking if a gift is too corny or too sentimental, you have to think about your women’s personality. Some women love the corny and sentimental gifts, the big stuffed animals or tons of heart shaped chocolates, that is why the market in that flourishes. But some women hate that kind of stuff, and would prepare something else. If you do not know, then don’t be ashamed to just ask her.

Women will most likely be flattered that you are thinking about it ahead of time, and are putting thought into it. The best advice that you can hear is just to think about the girl you’re dating, or are with- gifts that relate to her personally are the best and most thoughtful.

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The first thing you should do when embarking on a mission to choose a Valentine’s day gift for her, is to relax. This should be seen as a pleasurable experience with nothing on your mind except the warm fuzzy feelings you get when you think of how much you want to make her feel loved on this day.

To do this without the stress involved, it helps to go about it like any other action that you want to go well. You plan it out.

The first thing you’ll want to do is consider her likes and dislikes. There is nothing romantic about buying something that she doesn’t like. In fact, if she loves red roses and you bring her home yellow daisies, it won’t go over well. Not to say that she won’t (or shouldn’t) appreciate you taking the time to buy her flowers, but the idea is to make her feel special and you’ll do that by remembering what her favorite flower is.

One of the best things you can do for valentine’s day is instead of rushing out and grabbing a gift on the way home from work, plan out an actual day for her.

Now, that doesn’t mean you have to plan a day trip out of town or do anything too extreme, but make it a day that’s all about her and showing how much you appreciate her and her love.

This is where the planning part comes into play. If you plan it out well ahead of time, giving her a full valentine’s Day that’s all about her can be pretty stress-free but mean the world to her.

The only thing about planning a full day for her is that she will probably need to be in on it  – at least part of it to know she has to be available for a full day/evening.

As an example, you could have her Valentine’s Day car waiting with her favorite breakfast on the table when she awakes. A trip to the spa and a light lunch could follow. What about a drive down to the beach and a walk on the boardwalk. Yes, it might be chilly, but it’s romantic to snuggle and walk. If you do not have the budget for an evening dinner out, then maybe plan to watch two of her favorite chick flicks and share a bottle of her favorite wine?

You know her best, but you get the point. Really think about her, what she likes, and plan a full day around her and show her that you really were thinking of her today.

Without question, one of the best days of a woman’s life is when she is proposed to by the man she loves. For the man, it’s often a stressful thing to think about to be sure he goes about it the right way and makes everything perfect for her and memorable.

Valentine’s day is a romantic time to ask the love of your life to marry you, and here’s a few ways to make it even more special:

1. The Getaway. If you’re girlfriend loves spontaneity and taking trips, then proposing during a weekend getaway is a sure bet, especially if Valentine’s Day falls on a Saturday or Sunday. The great part about this is that you can make it all about a Valentine’s day gift and not bring up a suspicions of a possible proposal. If it’s possible in your relationship, don’t tell her until the last minute, that day even.

However, you will have to have quite a few things already planned (tickets, hotel, possibly bags packed). If you have trouble with these sorts of things, try enlisting a trusted friend of hers to help you plan it out.

2. The Family Surprise. Why not propose in front of her whole family. This one depends on if your girlfriend is the traditional type and also how well you and her get along with her side of the family.  You will likely need at least one family members in on this with you to help you gather a family reunion (party, dinner, etc.) and invite her to come on a specific date.

Not everyone has to know, but it will probably work out better if they do. This way, you can designate a specific time that you will propose so that everyone knows to be in the room. You might want to even have a signal like a particular song, or have someone say something that is the code.

This one is great for those who would like to get it on film without ruining the element of surprise, since it wouldn’t be odd for cameras to be rolling at a family reunion.

3. Steal From The Movies. But not just any movie. The majority of women have at least one chick flick that turns on the water works because of a romantic proposal somewhere in the film. So, what you could do is re-enact that scene. If you’re unsure of what that movie is, then set it up first by finding out the sneaky way.  Tell her that you want to do a chick flick marathon with her for Valentine’s day and that you want to buy her a few of her favorites.

Make sure you get a list of 5 or 6 or more to choose from so you can be sure to get one with a proposal in it. Also, be sure to work this in with ample time to set up the proposal on Valentine’s day.